Overview of Adding a Dependent to Your VA Disability Benefits

Adding a dependent to your VA disability benefits can significantly increase your monthly compensation. This extra support acknowledges the expenses of caring for your loved ones and can help ease your financial burden.

The process usually involves ensuring you qualify, submitting the required paperwork, and tracking your claim. The VA offers several ways to file, such as using the eBenefits system online, which can expedite the process. However, be aware of the specific eligibility rules and necessary documentation, as mistakes can cause delays or denials.

If you have a disability rating of at least 30%, you can add dependents like a spouse, child, or a parent who meets certain income guidelines. Scenarios for adding dependents include:

  • Marriage
  • Having or adopting a child
  • Caring for a disabled child or dependent parent


You can add dependents when you first apply for benefits or later through eBenefits. Remember, each type of dependent requires different forms and proof, so make sure you have everything in order.

Conditions for Adding a Dependent

Adding a dependent to your VA disability benefits requires understanding the specific conditions and criteria set by the VA.

  • Spouse: You can add a spouse as a dependent following your marriage—whether it’s traditional, common-law, or same-sex—by providing your marriage certificate and proof of shared financial responsibilities.
  • Children: You can add a newborn or adopted child, or extend benefits to those under 18, full-time students between 18 and 23, or those permanently disabled before 18, with proper documentation like birth certificates or adoption papers.


Timing is crucial—you need to apply within specific windows after significant life events to avoid delays or the need for extra paperwork. If you’re the primary caregiver for a dependent parent meeting certain income criteria, they can be added, provided their income and net worth are below the VA’s threshold. Meeting these conditions ensures a smoother process and helps you secure the benefits your family is entitled to.

Marriage and Adding a Spouse

When you get married, you can add your spouse as a dependent to your VA disability benefits, which can increase your monthly compensation. To do this, you must provide a valid marriage certificate and complete VA Form 21-686c (Declaration of Status of Dependents). Ensuring that all your documents are accurate and complete is crucial to avoid delays. By adding a spouse, you will receive a higher compensation rate.

VA acknowledges the added financial responsibilities that come with having dependents. If you get married after you start receiving VA disability benefits, you can also apply for retroactive benefits. This means you could receive back pay from the date of your marriage, as long as you submit the necessary documents within one year. Filing your claim online through the eBenefits system is recommended for faster processing, but you can also use paper forms if you prefer.

Process for Adding a Dependent

Initial Filing and Concurrent Claims

When you’re first filing a claim to add a dependent to your VA disability benefits, start by submitting VA Form 21-686c, known as “Application Request to Add and/or Remove Dependents.” Make sure to include all supporting documents like marriage certificates or birth certificates. If you’re also applying for an increase in disability compensation, you can submit both claims at the same time, which can speed up the process. To help you fill out the form correctly, follow these steps:

  • Provide accurate personal information for you and your dependent.
  • Double-check all dates and names.
  • Avoid common mistakes like forgetting to sign the form.


This will ensure your application is processed smoothly and efficiently.

Using the eBenefits System

To add a dependent using the eBenefits system, log into your eBenefits account, or create one if you haven’t already. Once you’re logged in, navigate to the “Apply” section and select “Add or Remove Dependents.”

Follow the prompts to submit the required information and documents electronically. Depending on who you’re adding, you might need to upload extra forms—like a Request for Approval of School Attendance (VA Form 21-674) for a full-time student dependent. The eBenefits portal is user-friendly and can provide quicker updates on your claim status, often within 48 hours.

Once you’ve completed the application, you’ll receive a confirmation notice and a tracking number to monitor the status. This streamlined process not only reduces processing time but also lets you track your application in real-time. Keep in mind, for special cases like adding a disabled child or dependent parents, you may need to provide additional forms. The eBenefits system is designed to make managing your benefits straightforward, but if you encounter any issues, accessing their resource section or contacting support can help resolve any pitfalls.

Required Documentation for Adding Dependents

To add dependents to your VA disability benefits, you’ll need to provide specific evidence that verifies your relationship with each dependent.

  • For spouses, submit a marriage certificate—common-law and same-sex marriages are recognized by the VA.
  • For biological children under 18, you’ll need birth certificates; for adopted children, adoption papers are required.
  • If your child is a full-time student aged 18-23, include a Request for Approval of School Attendance (VA Form 21-674), and for children permanently disabled before 18, attach relevant medical records.
  • For dependent parents, complete a Statement of Dependency of Parent(s) (VA Form 21P-509) and document their low income and dependency status.


Use VA Form 21-686c to declare the status of your dependents.

You can submit these forms and documents either online through the VA’s eBenefits system or by mail—remember to keep copies for your records. The VA will review everything for accuracy, so it’s crucial to ensure all information is correct to avoid delays. Follow up if needed to make sure your dependents are added promptly.

Forms and Medical Records for Each Type of Dependent

When it comes to adding dependents to your benefits, knowing the right forms and medical records to gather can make the process much smoother.

  • For your spouse, you’ll need to complete VA Form 21-686c (Declaration of Status of Dependents) and provide your marriage certificate alongside any divorce decrees from previous marriages.
  • For biological children, the VA Form 21-686c is also required, plus the child’s birth certificate.
  • If your child is adopted, you’ll need the final adoption decree instead.
  • For stepchildren, include their birth certificate and your marriage certificate to the child’s biological parent.
  • If you’re adding a child who is permanently disabled before turning 18, make sure to include private medical records that detail the child’s disabilities.
  • For full-time students aged 18-23, submit a Request for Approval of School Attendance (VA Form 21-674).
  • If you’re adding a dependent parent, complete VA Form 21P-509 (Statement of Dependency of Parent(s)) along with detailed financial information to prove they rely on you financially, and possibly birth certificates or other proof of relationship and dependency.


This way, you’ll have all the essential documents ready for a seamless application process.

Submission Methods (Online and Mail)

When it comes to adding dependents to your VA disability benefits, you have two main options: submitting your application online via the eBenefits system or sending it through traditional mail.

  • If you choose the online route, the eBenefits portal offers a user-friendly interface that guides you step-by-step through the process, ensuring that all required information and documents are submitted correctly. This method is typically faster and allows you to track the status of your application in real-time, helping to avoid common pitfalls like missing paperwork or data entry errors.
  • On the other hand, if you prefer to use traditional mail, you’ll need to complete VA Form 21-686c, “Application Request to Add and/or Remove Dependents,” and send it to the appropriate VA Regional Office. Be sure to include all necessary documentation, such as marriage certificates or birth certificates, to prevent any delays. Using certified mail with a return receipt can provide peace of mind by confirming that your application has been received.


While online submissions generally offer quicker processing times and immediate confirmation, mail submissions might be a better fit if you’re less comfortable with technology or prefer to keep physical copies of your records. By understanding these two methods, you can choose the one that best suits your needs and ensure a smoother application process.

Common Questions and Helpful Tips

How long does it take to add a dependent?

  • Generally, you can expect the VA to process your claim in about 30 to 60 days, though this can vary based on your case’s complexity and the completeness of your documentation.
  • To maximize your benefits and avoid delays, ensure you submit all required forms accurately and completely the first time around.
  • Keeping digital copies of all submissions and correspondence will help you track your claim’s progress.


Do you receive any benefits during processing?

  • Often, the VA provides “interim” benefits if initial eligibility is confirmed, with the final amount adjusted once the dependents are verified.
  • Eligibility to add a dependent generally requires a disability rating of at least 30%.
  • Filing your claim online through the VA’s eBenefits website is faster and might result in receiving a decision within 48 hours.
  • If you file within a year of a life event like marriage or the birth of a child, you might even qualify for back pay to the date of the event.


Removing a Dependent and Other Life Changes

If you need to remove a dependent from your VA disability benefits, it’s crucial to act quickly to avoid complications like overpayment. Dependents can be removed if you get divorced, if a child reaches age 18 (unless they meet exceptions like being a full-time student or having certain disabilities), or if a dependent passes away. Promptly notifying the VA is key here.

  • You’ll need to fill out VA Form 21-686c and submit it either through the eBenefits system or by mail.
  • Be ready to include necessary documents like a divorce decree or death certificate to validate your changes.


Besides removing dependents, other life changes such as marriage, divorce, birth or adoption of a child, or the death of a spouse also affect your VA benefits. Each situation requires specific documents to support the updates. The processing times may vary—removing a spouse usually happens faster than removing a child, often within 48 hours if done through the VA’s automated system. Always keep your information up-to-date to ensure smooth and accurate benefits management.

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